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Re: Men Gotta Do Better

Get a girl — Thu, 07 Apr 2011 14:21:12 -0000

Yes men should change their style. Great article and I hope you'll start to write again. Thanks and more power to your blog.

Re: Two Wrongs Don’t Make It Right

Getagirl — Tue, 15 Mar 2011 16:00:49 -0000

The title of this article is so apt in your situation. Two wrongs don't make it right so please don't think of getting even with the person who betrayed you. But I won't blame you if you ever you do that. That's the normal instict of women. :)

Re: Gemini – The Misunderstood Sign

ANISHA — Tue, 22 Feb 2011 12:21:10 -0000

I am a Gemini and I can say that yes we do have split-personalities, its our ruler, the twins...We can be fickle but at the same time we go out of our way for ppl...We are misunderstood because we are very unpredictable, mysterious in the way of not letting anyone too close and I did mess with a Gemini before...it was pure enjoyment for a while, we kept each other laughing then after a while the Curious Gemini wanted more so I had to leave...there was nothing wrong with him other than the fact he was younger than me and could get a lil immature at times...Gemini's are the most misunderstood but at the same time the most wanted from my perspective...We are adventerous and we can not stay still...it will be hard to hold us down I will give you that but once you have our heart, because it takes so long to open up and trust someone, you will have it forever.

Re: The One

The Relationship Company — Mon, 24 Jan 2011 03:47:54 -0000

Keep blogging! Do you have anymore articles similar to this?

Re: An Open Letter to Dwayne Wade

small business seo — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 11:58:40 -0000

With the Cavaliers trailing the Heat by one point in Miami and 26 seconds left to play, James steals a Dwyane Wade pass, takes it coast-to-coast and ...

Re: Two Wrongs Don’t Make It Right

The1Essence — Wed, 29 Dec 2010 10:47:37 -0000

I know this feeling oh, so well. The same thing happened to me this time last year and I too had to make a painful decision. First, I lashed out in a blog at the perpetrator...two days later I removed the blog. I had let that person succeed in taking me out of my normal character and off the progressive pat I had been striving toward. I found it painful to forgive them and even more painful to acknowledge my faults after the fact. You are right, two wrongs don't make a right. I forgave them but, the scar is still there...I don't let people in my personal space so easily anymore. Still, there was a lesson learned about myself that I strive not to repeat.

Re: Wish U Were Here

Vixen — Thu, 25 Nov 2010 00:23:47 -0000

this was a beautiful repost.thank you,as i am wishing my daddy was still here.his b-day would have been on sat and i am going to a homegoing on the very same day to say goodbye to a teacher of the bible and a friend.

Re: Wish U Were Here

Miss Sara — Thu, 25 Nov 2010 00:02:33 -0000

Reading this made me think of my Grandma who passed last year… She, too had Alzheimer’s (for MANY years). She was no longer living, only existing. Had no recollection of what year it was, or who her 10 children were, but she always knew me… We, too, shared secrets, but they were about how “mean ppl live forever” because she always told me she would “die before I came to visit again..” She was a mean, old Irish woman… LOL Oh, how I miss her so. Thanks for sharing this… I believe your Grandma does see you & she is proud of who you have become. ;-)

Re: Gemini – The Misunderstood Sign

Valerie — Wed, 06 Oct 2010 20:25:46 -0000

I am in love with a Gemini and have been for 6yrs... it has been the most emotionally adventurous relationship of my life to say the least... Overall, my experience has been positive because this has been my most influential relationship. I learned a lot from him, surprisingly and I got to teach him a few things as well. If I had to do it all over again, I certainly would... I have no regrets... Negativity surrounds the Gemini because their indecisive tendencies and social prowess can reflect negatively on their intimate relationships... IMO, Gemini's are misunderstood because they're so fickle in nature and can't stay put long enough for you to really figure them out... As hard as it was, I took the time and effort required to get along with the fickle and ever changing spirit of a Gemini and it has been a wonderful experience.

Re: Armpit Hair

Margarita Lewis — Mon, 27 Sep 2010 03:38:45 -0000

OMG Luv this was hysterical! Disturbing but hysterical :)

To answer the questions:
I most definitely shave my armpits
I am an EVERYDAY shaver
Unless there is some medical reason, I can't think of when it would be appropriate not to shave :p
Luv you're gonna have tell me when armpit hair was in style :/
I don't know if my man cares if I have armpit hair but even if he PREFERRED it I couldn't see myself accommodating that

This is so random but funny just the same - did you ever determine if it was an NC thing or have you run across this anywhere else - lmao and smh

Re: Dear God

Margarita — Mon, 27 Sep 2010 03:23:39 -0000

This is such a wonderful, albeit extremely personal,piece...Thank You for sharing

Re: Balcony

Myria Ming — Fri, 27 Aug 2010 20:31:05 -0000

I cant believe you are making me wait for part 2!

Re: Wish U Were Here

Pr_patricia06 — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 16:43:46 -0000

I really Love This So much it Really Touch my Heart Deeply!!!

Re: Husband Store

Margarita Lewis — Sat, 14 Aug 2010 22:45:35 -0000

OMG This was great!! Can I "SHARE"?

Re: Gemini – The Misunderstood Sign

Livelovelovelife — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 18:58:30 -0000

Im an Aquarius and my closest friends are all Geminis. I absolutely love them, the very best people you can find. They do tend to have personality switches faster than you can blink an eye sometimes, but you have to take the good with the bad. My very recent ex is also Gemini and I think his ass is crazy(ghetto voice). I often look back and wonder if he is bipolar...the type if Gemini that give the rest a bad name. We were so compatible but he still seemed to switch his attitude up as often as he changed his drawers..Needless to say, loved him but I grew tired of his multiple personalities

Re: Intoxicating

Luvologist — Sat, 07 Aug 2010 15:56:44 -0000

I'm glad you had good memories.

Re: Intoxicating

Luvologist — Sat, 07 Aug 2010 15:56:25 -0000

There will be a continuation soon.

Re: Intoxicating

Wendy — Fri, 06 Aug 2010 19:01:32 -0000

OK.... you got my full attention, i am curious to hear more.... :)

Re: Dear God

Luvologist — Tue, 03 Aug 2010 08:46:30 -0000

My pleasure.

Re: Intoxicating

Luvologist — Tue, 03 Aug 2010 08:45:45 -0000

((smiling)) Yeah... you had to be there.

Re: Gemini – The Misunderstood Sign

Margarita Lewis — Mon, 02 Aug 2010 23:00:54 -0000

This post was so refreshing...as a Gemini I know exactly how you feel! I get the split-personality thing more than anything but the crossing the fingers had me on the floor laughing - because it's been done to me.

When I married my son's father, another Gemini, I thought we would be PERFECT for each other. But nooo...he was, IMO, probably a textbook example of what some of the other folks fear from dealing with with Geminis. He could be loving and laughing with me one minute then in the blink of an eye he was all jealousy and ugliness. He seemed really flighty when it came to the basic responsiblities in life (umm, things like working, paying the rent, buying food...) and, yes by the end of our marriage I thought he was crazy.

I am very much like the person you describe and he, for some reason, was no longer fond of the very characteristics that he said he loved about me at first. I'll be interested to see what others have to share about their experiences with Geminis...

As for me, unless I can tell the other Gemini is like me and not like him (the evil twin) then I'm not sure how easy it would be for me to try again with my own...

Re: Side Piece

susie — Thu, 22 Apr 2010 01:19:36 -0000

i say ask him if he's in love with her or not. then ask what he would think about you two getting back together later down the line.

Re: Marry A Poor Man

Riri — Tue, 20 Apr 2010 13:32:04 -0000

Love is rich, but this day in age I don't think ppl love anymore, you find more ppl settling with convenience, which isn't good

Re: Simple Blessings

Riri — Tue, 20 Apr 2010 13:25:13 -0000

This really makes you think about life in a different meaning and not the material things you wish you could have!

Re: The Coach and His Player

Anike Love — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 08:01:52 -0000

Coming from a Sociology background, I can't help to think that the discomfort felt by many speaks to the general discomfort about men's 1) ability to show emotions period, 2) ability to show emotions to other men without their sexuality or sexual intentions being question and 3) ability to show genuine emotions. I thought the Coach's gesture was indeed powerful, and if more men displayed these kinds of emotions, maybe there wouldn't have been certain reactions or comments.